Community and Relationships

The Attitudes That Keep Us from True Community

Finding community is hard. We cautiously and optimistically put ourselves out there—we make introductions, learn names, give hugs, take risks, and make invitations like we’re staving off a great white shark in a scene from Jaws. And just like Martin Brody, we’re preoccupied with one question: “Will I survive this?”

Racial Reconciliation Is Not a Cause

I had just walked into Chipotle when one of my Asian American colleagues pulled me aside.

4 Truths About Interracial Dating

Congratulations! You’ve found someone you want to date who wants to date you back! They’re cute, funny, and sincere with similar interests and values. They’re the whole package—and then, bonus points! They’re a different skin color from you!

10 Questions to Ruin Your Dating Relationship (and 10 Better Ones to Ask)

Dating can be one of the scariest, most confusing, and most joyful times of life. 

30 and Never Been Kissed

There are so many things wrong with this. Not with the fact, but with the title. 

3 Tips for Keeping Friendships Strong After College

Don’t wait until December to learn how to be a good post-grad friend. Here are three ways you can love your college friends well after graduation.

The One Dating Question You’re Not Asking—but Should Be

We’ve all heard the stories at least once. Maybe we even know someone for whom the story is true.

Nice Single Christian meets Super-Duper Other Christian.

How to Decide What Friends to Keep

Never before has it been possible to have so many relationships. Social media means you never have to say goodbye.

The Goodness of Vulnerability

As we sat side by side watching our kids’ practice, he showed concern about an issue with his son. I could relate. 

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