| Attitud |
Sin’s deception: What is |
Faith’s antidote |
| e of |
promised? |
| the |
| Heart |
| Bittern |
power over the person-to forgive |
to understand how we’ve been |
| ess |
would be to be subordinate |
forgiven by God. Matt 18:21-35. |
| resentm |
rights to complain, to be the |
to love people who have hurt us |
| ent |
victim, to self-pity |
for our own heart’s sake. Safety |
| The person might do it again: |
is found in forgiving. |
| ”protect yourself” |
The punishment for others’ sin is |
| To reconcile would be too much |
built into the system. There is |
| work |
no getting away with it. |
| Ex 23:4-5; Matt 18:21-35; Rom |
| 12:19-21 |
| Impatie |
Take action, take control, make |
James 1:3-6: Let patience |
| nce |
things happen. |
produce. Pray for wisdom. |
| ”God helps those who help |
Woman with the flow of blood: |
| themselves!” |
tyranny of the urgent. |
| Get what you can while you can! |
John 15:6: Apart from me you can |
| I can’t wait. My _ is too |
do nothing |
| important. |
Matt 5:5: “Blessed are the meek” |
| Luke 10:25-37: extravagant |
| servanthood |
| Isaiah 64:4: God works if we |
| wait. |
| Prov 21:5; Isa 40:28-31; 50:10-11 |
| Despond |
A reverse pride: You are so messed |
Josh 1:7-9; Ps 16:11; 23:1-6; |
| ency |
up, not even God loves you or can |
42:1-11; |
| despair |
do anything to help you. |
Isa 64:4 |
| ”If you had real faith this |
Ps. 73: Worship, focus on God, |
| wouldn’t be happening to you.” |
his help, his justice |
| ”Feel sorry for yourself-someone |
Romans 8:28-39: All things work |
| has got to.” Self pity leads to |
together for good. we are more |
| encouragement. |
than conquerors. |
| Tension in life comes from having |
Psalm 40: “I waited for the LORD, |
| reality not meet expectations. You |
he drew me up from the desolate |
| can eliminate this painful tension |
pit” |
| by reducing your hope to zero. |
2 Corinthians 4:17; Phil 1:6; Heb |
| Hope = reality = 0 ? no tension |
10:35-38 |
| ”I believe, help my unbelief!” |
| Anxiety |
If you worry, you can control. |
Matthew 6:25-34; 1 Peter 5:7; |
| Worry is productive. |
Phil 4:4-7, 13; Psalm 23; Isaiah |
| If you aren’t worrying, you |
7:9; 41:10; 43:1-7; 51:12 |
| haven’t done enough. Enough worry |
Luke 10:38-42, Mary/Martha |
| absolves you if you fail. |
Ps 127: “Unless the Lord builds |
| The more worried you are, the more |
the house…” |
| God will respond. |
”Great is Thy Faithfulness” |
| Regret |
You have made a choice that will |
Romans 8:28-39. In all these |
| be irrevocable: you will never be |
things we are more than |
| able to be in God’s will again. |
conquerors. I.e., things that we |
| Joy, happiness, hope, love are |
thought were stumbling blocks |
| placed permanently out of the |
prove to be stepping stones (with |
| realm of possibility for you. |
faith). We will experience joy, |
| Others may experience these |
hope, love by turning the |
| things, but you never will. |
disappointments of our lives over |
| to God for healing. |
| John 21:15-17: the reinstatement |
| of Peter. |
| Gen 50:20, 1 Sam 12:20, |
| Jealous |
You deserve more than you have |
Phil 4:12: contentment in all |
| y or |
received. Life has not been fair |
circumstances. |
| envy |
to you. Look at your friends-they |
Psalm 37:1-10: “Do not fret over |
| get all the breaks! Focus on your |
those who prosper in their way.” |
| status as victim: that will help |
Psalm 73; Gal 5:19-21; Phil 4:12; |
| you. |
1 Thess 5:18 |
| Critica |
You will be happier putting others |
Matt 7:1-5: Judge not. also Matt |
| l |
down. Putting others down feels |
5:21-4 |
| Spirit |
just like being exalted yourself. |
1 Cor 4:1-5: Let God be the judge |
| Your high standards show you are a |
Rom 14:13; Gal 5:13-15; 6:1-2 |
| person of remarkable |
Micah 6:8 Walk humbly with God |
| stature/class/taste. |
Matthew 7: Judge not, lest you be |
| judged. |
| Luke 18: Parable of Tax Collector |
| and Pharisee |
| Philippians 2: consider others; |
| Phil 4:8, think on these things. |
| Apathy |
It is better not to care than to |
| care and suffer or be disappointed |
| Drivenn |
Your life (and ministry) will only |
Exodus 20:8-11; Luke 11:38-42; |
| ess |
work out if you keep working hard. |
Psalm 23:1-3, Ps 46:10: “Be still |
| and know…” |
| Luke 10:38-42: Mary and Martha |
| Rejecting the Sabbath faithless |
| and sinful. |
| Sloth, |
Rest is more important than work. |
God was a worker (six days of |
| lazines |
Leisure will restore you. |
creation, one day of rest). Make |
| s |
Indulgence in your own rest is |
the most of the time, for the |
| required to be able to accomplish |
days are evil (Eph 5:16) |
| anything. |
Prov 6:6-11; 13:4; 26:15-16 |
| I will always have tomorrow to do |
Matt 25:14-30: Parable of the |
| what I don’t do today. |
talents |
| Col 3:23-24 |
| Heb 6:11-12 |
| Self-pr |
If you open up you will experience |
Mark 8:34-37: Lose your life to |
| otectio |
pain and disappointment |
gain it |
| n |
You will be happier knowing you |
Luke 10:25-37: The Good Samaritan |
| rely only on yourself |
| Others don’t merit your trust. |
1 Cor 12:12-27: The parts of the |
| Withholding it will punish them. |
body need each other |
| God won’t protect you; you can, |
Phil 2:1-11: the mind of Christ: |
| however, protect yourself. |
a servant |
| 2 Tim 2:1-13: Share in suffering |
| like a good soldier of Christ |
| Jesus. |
| Divisiv |
Causing disunity increases your |
1 Cor 1:10-13; 12:12-13, 24-26 |
| eness |
own power and hence satisfaction |
Gal 5:19-21; 6:7-10; Col 3:11-15 |
| Only by showing your distinctives |
| will your superiority be manifest |
| Covetou |
Psalm 23; Matt 6:19-21; Luke |
| sness |
12:13-21; Phil 4:11-13; 1 Tim |
| 6:6-12; Heb 13:5-6 |
| Deceit |
If I speak the truth I will not be |
Lev 19:11: You shall not deal |
| happy. |
falsely… You shall not lie. |
| If people knew the truth about me |
Psa 51:6: You desire truth in the |
| they would reject me. |
inward being; therefore teach me |
| wisdom in my secret heart. |
| Proverbs 13:5-6; 20:17 |
| Acts 5:1-10: Ananias and Sapphira |
| Col 3:9-10 |
| Lust, |
Matt 5:27-30; Mark 7:20-23; 1 Cor |
| immoral |
7:8-9 |
| ity: |
Gal 5:19-24; |
| Gal 6:7-10: Do not be deceived; |
| God is not mocked, for you reap |
| whatever you sow. If you sow to |
| your own flesh, you will reap |
| corruption from the flesh… |
| Pride, |
Deut 8:14-18; Jer 9:24; Ezek |
| self-ad |
18:29-32 |
| ulation |
Matt 23:12: All who exalt |
| themselves will be humbled. |
| 1 Cor 1:28-31: God chose the low |
| ... |
| 1 Cor 4:7: “What have you that |
| you did not receive? ... Why do |
| you boast…?” |
| James 4:6-8; 1 Peter 5:5 |